Ok, let me spill some tea about my latest date — a true plot-twist kind of evening. Spoiler: it involves a torch. Yes, you heard that right, a flashlight and something slightly more raunchy. But first, let’s rewind. So, last week, I found myself out in New York City on yet another date. No, sadly, … Read more
Don’t let the cold weather keep you from heating up in the bedroom. A doctor is warning to watch out for “winter penis,” a seasonal condition that may hinder a man’s ability to perform sexually. As the temperature drops, the male genitalia recede into the body to maintain body heat, resulting in restricted blood flow. … Read more
A 29-year-old woman is helping women be more detached when it comes to dating after sharing with the world she has anti-social personality disorder. Kanika Batra was diagnosed with anti-social personality disorder (ASPD). It’s colloquially known as being a sociopath. The Brisbane woman was told she had the condition at 21. Common traits include a disregard … Read more
Fitness influencer Steph Claire Smith has clapped back at critics who shamed her for opening up about her sex life on her podcast. During a conversation with her Kicpod co-host and Kic co-founder Laura Henshaw, Smith described a recent experience with her husband when she introduced a new sex toy into the bedroom. After receiving criticism for … Read more
A couple who have been together since 2009 reveal the conversation that sparked their swinging lifestyle — and the rules they had when they first got started. Olivia and Gage, who go by Vista Wife and Vista Husband, met in 2009 during a night out in Leeds, in England’s north, and the pair swapped numbers. … Read more
Sometimes, being a “clean girl” means foregoing doing the dirty. Gen Z skincare fanatics are finding that participating in the “morning shed” — a social media trend that involves slathering on multiple products, putting in hair rollers and popping in mouth guards to maximize true beauty sleep — isn’t exactly conducive to a late-night snuggle. But … Read more
New data has revealed a controversial sex act is declining in popularity, spawning the rise of a bedroom activity that was once deemed “boring.” The number of Australians drinking alcohol has been slowly decreasing in recent years, aside from a small spike during the 2020-21 lockdown, according to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (AIHW). But our … Read more
OK men, there’s something I’m about to share with you that will probably come as a big relief. Chatting to the girls the other night at dinner, we posed the question – would you rather a guy lasted 30 seconds or one hour in the bedroom? We all agreed, we would rather they lasted 30 … Read more
All aboard the retreating gravy train, folks. Jupiter, our planet of fortune, luck, and popped champagne corks, stations retrograde from Oct. 9 to Feb. 25, 2025, in the mutable, communicable climes of Gemini. Retrograde is understandably a trigger word for anyone who has accidentally sexted the office Slack during Mercury retrograde or lost on love when … Read more
One in four Americans in a relationship admit they’re hiding a secret from their partner, according to new research. A survey of 2,000 sexually active adults found that 26% of those in relationships admit their partner doesn’t know their true “body count” — the number of people they’ve been intimate with. While a majority of … Read more
Sexual myths (SMs) are a roadblock to a thriving sexual connection. SMs are false beliefs and attitudes that influence a couple’s sex life. They’re unquestioned, implicit ideas and can contribute to unrealistic expectations and unnecessary pressure. If entrenched, SMs can lead to dissatisfaction or issues in the bedroom. It’s important to identify the myth you … Read more
The other morning, I woke up with the hangover of all hangovers. Note to self, never a wise idea to catch up for a “casual” drink with an ex-boyfriend. Oooft. It had all the makings of a day wasted in bed. Headache – tick, fatigue – tick, and a strange sense of arousal – tick. … Read more
We’re in the corridor, folks, that heightened celestial hallway between eclipses. Between the September 17 lunar eclipse in Pisces and the October 2nd solar eclipse in Libra, we’re in the thick of the thicket that is eclipse season. This span of days can be something of a cosmic catalyst as we’re hurled toward destiny, cursed … Read more
Oh, dear readers, brace yourselves. This week’s lesson is a classic case of “Do as I say, not as I do,” because I seem to have made the biggest of dating boo-boos. Last week, I got ghosted. Yes, after three long months of dating someone I thought was pretty darn fabulous, Casper the not-so-friendly ghost … Read more
A good roll in the hay shouldn’t take all day. Humping and pumping for hours on end is a sex-ercise in futility, according to new data which claims sexually active sweethearts can achieve euphoria in less time than it takes to do a high-intensity workout. “Americans and Britons who are sexually satisfied prefer sex to last around 35 … Read more
DEAR ABBY: A close male friend, “Will,” ended our friendship without warning. I didn’t know he had such strong feelings about my current arrangement. I have been dating a married man, “Bart,” whose wife suggested he get himself a girlfriend if he wanted sex/intimacy/companionship. She also told him she would “never want to sleep with … Read more
A little while ago I was woken in the middle of the night to something prodding me from behind. I was delighted to discover it was from a randy man friend who had decided the midnight hour would be the perfect time for some handsy action during our sexy slumber party. My initial annoyance at … Read more
A professional sex-pert says we’re getting foreplay all wrong — and the key to happiness is renaming it ‘before play’ and broadening our definition of sex. Sarah Riccio, 34, is a sex positive activist and professional sex toy tester who believes that we are all still getting things wrong when we think about sex. Sarah, … Read more
If you want to be a 10 in bed, don’t forget the fore. A glamorous pornstar says most men don’t engage in foreplay before getting down and dirty — and it’s an instant turn-off for women. Hayley Davies, who hails from Australia and shoots steamy scenes around the world, said the faux pas is a … Read more
It’s tough love. A “no-nonsense” dating coach says a woman should dump her boyfriend if he hasn’t said “I love you” within three months of starting the relationship. Jake Maddock — who has previously made headlines for his no-nonsense approach to dating — has offered the claim in several recent videos on TikTok and Instagram, saying … Read more