This woman lives a charmed life as a stay-at-home wife.
A so-called “feminine lifestyle coach” — known on TikTok as femfitflow — has revealed why she ditched “hustle culture” and left her job, choosing to forever be a housewife.
She shared a clip about how her life has improved as a stay-at-home wife rather than working, declaring that she’s a “feminine cyclical being” who is simply fed up with “forcing myself into these masculine structures.”
“You know what, I’m just out here in my matching set with my little princess dog, drinking my green juice, running my little errands because I’m just realizing there is nothing better than this,” she began her one-minute video filmed inside her car.
“You can’t convince me otherwise,” she went on about her daily routine. “Like I woke up whenever the hell I wanted to, got my workout done for the day, I’m going to go grab some lunch, run a few more errands, come back home, do my hot girl walk.”
“I’m going to help my husband with some creative things in his business which is super fun and I’m going to make us a delicious lasagne for dinner,” she continued. “Then we’re going to cuddle on the couch with our dogs and watch a movie.”
The lifestyle guru said she’s “feeling so grateful” for ditching her 9-5.
“Listen, all this girl boss, climb the corporate ladder, hustle culture is just not the life,” she said, noting she felt exhausted by the daily grind which led her to break free from hustle culture.
“I did all that. I am burned out and I saw no end in sight to it at all. I’m just so glad I escaped all that before it was too late,” she said.
“The minute I realized that I am a feminine cyclical being and I can’t keep forcing myself into these masculine structures with serious health consequences, is when my life changed,” she concluded. “Girlfriend, if you’re looking for a sign, this is it.”
The coach is also a big promoter of the “soft life” — a way for women to live a stress-free and comfortable life.
The influencer often posts videos on her page about her tips for living a low-stress existence, relationship advice and how women can be “ex-girl bosses.”
People in her comments section were skeptical of her ways, with one writing: “I thrive for girls doing this and living their fullest life but I mind it when you say it’s ‘feminine.’ It makes me gag.”
“I am manifesting this lifestyle for myself #softlife,” one added.
Someone else worried: “All well and good until, God forbid, you get old and your husband switches over to wifey #2 and you are left on the curb with no skills or money.”
“Preach. leaning out of masculine energy and into feminine energy changed my life,” another scribed. “You’re not wrong, but you are privileged that you’re able to do it the bills.”