Are you with the right partner? 9 tell-tale signs from a psychologist

This bit of relationship advice has a nice ring to it — and you might get one by taking it, too.

A psychologist recently shared the nine signs and traits that successful couples consistently demonstrate as a way to know whether or not you’re with your soulmate.

It comes around the same time that hosts of “The View” raved over a story by The Post, listing the seven deadly sins to commit after sex that will turn off your lover.

While it’s important to be on the same page as your partner in the bedroom — sex is part of it, too — Jeffrey Bernstein, author of “Why Can’t You Read My Mind,” said there’s much more to ensure a relationship is “fulfilling.”

Here are the nine ways you can tell you’ve found your match, plus how these qualities can help bring you closer to your partner.

1. You have open communication

Bernstein said being able to talk freely and honestly is something “essential” to have a worthwhile commitment.

“If you and your partner can express your thoughts, feelings, and needs without fear of judgment, that’s a positive sign,” he explained.

Many couples are finding original avenues to do this, too, like some who sleep in separate beds simply for the quality of their ZZZs.

2. You strive for a deeper emotional connection

It’s not uncommon for longtime couples to lose the so-called spark that brought them together in the first place, said Bernstein.

But in these cases, there is an obligation to make efforts to rekindle that love to get right back to where they started, as Maxine Nightingale once sang.

“Feeling emotionally connected is crucial. If you feel a deep sense of understanding, support, and intimacy with your partner, your relationship is likely fulfilling,” the psychiatrist wrote.

3. You show respect

One of the largest building blocks that will further your relationship is creating a deeper appreciation, understanding, and respect for what they go through daily.

But don’t think of respect as a blanket statement; Actually take time to consider the individual things you can do more to show a partner your thoughtfulness towards their lives.

“If both partners respect each other’s boundaries, opinions, and individuality, it contributes to a healthy and fulfilling relationship,” according to Bernstein.

“If respect does not exist in the relationship, you know what happens.”

4. You focus on shared values

Just like thinking of ways to outwardly demonstrate respect, considering each others’ values can also foster more intimate relationship growth.

And, if you fear that things are tilting in the wrong direction, emphasizing the achievement of shared goals and values can “create a sense of unity,” he wrote.

“If you and your partner align on fundamental aspects of life, it can enhance the fulfillment of your relationship.”

5. You create a supportive environment

Partners should also emphasize creating a household where personal growth is especially encouraged, Bernstein explained.

“If your partner encourages your personal growth…and is there for you during challenges, that is a gift that keeps on giving to both partners,” he said.

6. You get on with gettin’ it on

A strong and passionate sex life is crucial to emotional growth, the psychologist added.

“If both partners are satisfied with the level of physical intimacy and feel a connection through it, it contributes to fulfillment,” he said

As The Post’s story advised, don’t check your phone or talk about chores right after a little tenderness.

7. You spend quality time outside of the bedroom, too

You should be really trying to have a platonic life that’s as adventurous and rewarding as your sexual escapades as a way to grow closer to your loved one, too.

“Spending quality time together is vital. If you both prioritize and enjoy spending time with each other,” Bernstein wrote.

“It adds to the overall satisfaction of the relationship.”

8. You still remain independent

Growing individually is a major contributor to growing together, according to Bernstein.

“If both partners maintain their own interests and also support each other’s pursuits, it can contribute to a well-rounded connection.”

9. You prioritize conflict resolution

Perhaps the biggest tell to successful couples is seeing how they manage to butt heads with one another.

Bernstein says doing this constructively ” is significant.”

“If you and your partner can navigate disagreements respectfully and find solutions together, it indicates a healthy relationship.”