If a guy ghosts a woman after first-date sex, she’s got to “move on” to the next.
At least that’s what one controversial relationship coach is virally advising on social media, adding that only “feminine” men ghost their sexual conquests once they’ve enjoyed a roll in the hay.
“‘He stopped texting me after we’ve slept together. What do I do now?’” read dating expert Jake Maddock, from Australia, responding to a female fan’s relationship query in a trending TikTok clip.
“What can you do?” he said, answering the unnamed woman’s plea for help. “You can send a message. If he doesn’t respond, move on.”
In a separate post, Maddock, a married father, encouraged women to have sex with men on their first date sans fear the prompt romp will ruin their chances of enjoying a healthy, lasting courtship.
“Girls, you can sleep with the guy on the first date,” he assured. “It doesn’t make him like you less.”
Maddock continued, “If he’s your ideal partner, he will fall in love with you regardless of when.
“It’s not about timing,” he insisted. “You can do it on the first date if you want to.”
But when a commenter challenged his advice, writing, “I’ve been told by many guys that if I’d actually slept with them on the first night, they would have never been interested after that,” Maddock explained that such is only true with a specific category of fellows.
“A feminine man would think less of you,” he said in reply to the assertion. “A masculine man would not.”
However, much to Maddock’s chagrin, a wave of criticism came crashing into his comments section from virtual detractors who argued that his early bonking tips were bogus.
“100% wrong. Guys tend to lose interest when they get the girl too easily,” wrote a naysaying heckler.
“They leave when they got what they wanted,” said a separate cyber cynic.
“I’m as masculine as it gets. I say you’re wrong,” another chimed.
Another hater jeered, “Totally wrong. Nobody wants to be with a ho that’s been run thru.”
However, a handful of hopeless romantics actually sided with Maddock, saying true love can’t be rocked by a little premature hanky-panky.
“I agree with him … If it’s meant to be, you sleeping [together] on the 1st date isn’t going to change that,” said a supporter.
“Agreed. If they’re not interested it’s because they’re just not interested,” penned a fan.
Another wrote, “I think it just depends on the people. 60% of marriages come from one-night stands, so there’s something to it.”
One brave woman confessed, “I slept with mine, first night, after the date. Inside a restaurant toilet. Ah, good times,” to which a stunned Maddock responded with the shocked emoji.