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Tinder’s self-proclaimed “most swiped right man” is now sharing the wealth — by using artificial intelligence technology to help “genetically un-blessed people” land a soulmate.
For Stefan-Pierre Tomlin, 32, it’s the romantic equivalent of fishing with dynamite.
“My AI prompts and training can turn any guy from zero to hero,” the online ladykiller told South West News Service of his methods of helping those who are unlucky in love.
The pilot, who also splits his time modeling, claims that dating “has never been a hard task” because meeting women “comes easily to him.”
Indeed, the Londoner reportedly earned the title “Mr. Tinder” in 2017 after the app announced he’d gotten a record-breaking 14,600 matches in two years — the most of anyone on the app at the time.
With the help of AI, Tomlin is now using his sex-pertise to turn the perennially dateless into digital Don Juans.
By subscribing to Tomlin’s site, Celebrity Love Coach — with packages priced between $45 and $150 — singles will get access to “bespoke” AI to compose more appealing dating profiles.
Specifically, he uses design tech to enhance images and ChatGPT — OpenAI’s omnipresent ChatBot — to ghost-write attractive bios and messages.
Tomlin’s kind of like “Hitch” but with performance-enhancing “droids” to maximize bachelor’s chances.
“I’m selling a real solution — a bespoke plan of action that uses machines to correct your dating fault,” promised the self-proclaimed “Love Coach.” “Think of it as Viagra for your social profile … my results come in hard and fast.”
He added, “You will go from no dates to full diaries.”
Using a cyber Cyrano de Bergerac to land dates might feel akin to catfishing (ChatFishing?); however, Tomlin claims he’s simply “evening out the playing field.”
“It’s not cheating, it’s giving back power to the less fortunate,” declared the date doctor. “I am giving un-genetically blessed people a hidden advantage in the dating game.”
He added, “You use a dishwasher to make your home life easier — my clients use AI and our training to make their dating lives more for a fulfilling, long-lasting connection.”
Tomlin claimed that AI image enhancements are no different than women uploading “a photo on Instagram using a filter” or receiving “Botox or filler” treatment.
His advice comes as AI is being used to automate nearly every facet of life from academia to law and of, course, online dating.
Not to worry if you dislike the idea of whipping up a dating profile from concentrate. Tomlin also provides in-person sessions to help clients organically increase their value in the live romantic marketplace.
His tips include having a good icebreaker, doing a video call beforehand, and making sure to use a photo of oneself for the dating profile.
“Your first message should be a fun open question not just ‘hey,’” prescribed the professional wingman. “Don’t have anyone else in your profile pictures — you don’t want people to have to play a game of ‘Where’s Wally?”
He added, “You should include photos of your hobbies — not just photos of you drinking and clubbing — that doesn’t attract the right demographic.”
Tomlin also advises against seeking one-night stands as this violates the golden rule of treating people how you’d like to be treated.
“You shouldn’t meet someone just to sleep with them straight away, you should try and find out more about them to see if you’re compatible,” said the Tinder slayer, offering his thoughts on match and release practices.
It appears that Tomlin’s advice has paid dividends among the romantically challenged. Of the 45 men he has helped in the last two months, 32 have successfully landed a date, the love coach boasted to SWNS.
Despite his prolific Tinder swipes and AI matchmaking, Tomlin paradoxically found his girlfriend, Natasha Boon, the old-fashioned way — through a mutual friend.
“When I first saw Natasha, she instantly reminded me of Marilyn Monroe,” the Brit described of meeting the singer-songwriter and 2018 contestant on “The X Factor.”
He added, “She wore a tight red dress, red lippy and her trendy blond hair was styled amazingly. She knocked me off my feet and that rarely happens with me.”
The increased automatization of online dating discourse has raised important ethical dilemmas, particularly concerning the authenticity of the person on the other side of the matrix.
Last month, women shared horror stories of getting hornswoggled by guys using an AI wingman called CupidBot, which does everything from flirting to soliciting numbers.
They claimed they’d be smitten by the online persona, only to find out later that the actual person was nothing like their virtual doppelganger.
It happened again earlier this month after a Reddit user discovered that the “perfect” woman he’d met online was actually an AI creation known as “Claudia.”
Two cheeky computer science students had concocted the avatar as a goof to “see if you can fool people with AI pictures.”