This couple’s sex life is in full swing — literally.
Riding the wave of consensual non-monogamy, or having your partner’s blessing to get busy with other people, has taken one married pair’s physical intimacy to explosive “new levels” of lustiness.
So much so, in fact, that the swinging sweethearts are now touting the benefits of their sexy swaps with the world.
“I just don’t think humans [are] meant for monogamy,” Gage Materson, 32, from the UK, told Caters News. “Meeting someone, getting married and only sleeping with that one person for the rest of your life just doesn’t seem like it could work.”
He and wife of more than a decade, Olivia, 31, became swingers five years ago after she revealed her romantic interest in women.
“It all started when I asked Olivia if she would ever consider sleeping with women, and she admitted that she had before we were together and that she was bicurious,” said Materson. “This conversation got the ball rolling for us because the thought of Olivia with a woman was something I was a big fan of, and we decided to explore it further.”
Excited to take the plunge into partner passing, the daring darlings, who first met in high school, began scouring the internet for other swinging spouses and swing-friendly soirées.
“We started looking at sites where we could find other people and couples to meet up with and we discovered parties that we could also attend,” said Materson.
But when the switch-happy honeys found their community, they proceeded with extreme caution.
“We were both, of course, nervous the first few times,” Materson admitted. “However, we instantly fell in love with the lifestyle.”
The lovebirds were fast flying high in the splendor of their non-monogamy.
“We discovered that sleeping with other people actually made our sex life as a couple so much better too,” he said.
And although the Matersons are free to bed-bounce with whomever they individually please, they’ve agreed to keep their heart-to-heart bond sacred.
“While Olivia and I are definitely emotionally monogamous,“ said the trading hubby.
Careful to keep their connection intact, Materson and his main squeeze have even set boundaries around their boudoir bandying.
“Throughout everything, Olivia and I ensure that the other person is comfortable with the situation and check in on each other to make sure that the experience is enjoyable for us both,” he continued. “This is why communication is vital.”
The significant others’ rules of play have protected them from hurting one another.
“Most people will have ground rules that they stick to, which just makes sure that everyone involved is feeling happy and avoids any negative feelings such as jealousy,” Materson said. “However, jealousy isn’t ever something that comes up for Olivia and [me].”
Rather than going green with envy, the sweeties feel that giving each other the green light to sleep around has enriched their relationship.
“We never have to worry about cheating either, because if we see someone and we fancy them, we’re open with each other about it,” he bragged. “We know we can have fun with them, but then know that we will always come back to each other.”
And Materson says non-monogamy has, too, heated up their marital rolls in the hay.
“We can’t keep away from each other and it improves our sex life more than you could ever imagine,” he said.
“We both want each other to have all these incredible experiences in the bedroom, fulfill all of our fantasies, and then come back together and tell each other all about it all,” added Materson. “When we go back to each other after playing with others, it’s like our bond and connection is stronger than it has ever been.”
And the promiscuous pair is now supporting other wannabe swappers in taking the dive.
“We want to help other people have the amazing experiences that we have, and want to be able to do this in a safe way,” said Materson, “which is why we set up Swinghub which has just recently launched.”
“It’s a non-monogamous social networking app where users can meet each other in a safe way and they can also find lots of useful information about the lifestyle to help them navigate it,” he added.
Swinging has long been hailed as a sexy salve that’s saved a number of marriages that were headed south.
In fact, certified first-time swinging coach Rosie Kay, from London, has made a living assisting spouses and singletons traversing the seas of non-monogamy. And In 2022, Hank and Cleo, a wedded couple from New Jersey told The Post that “soft-swinging,” or being sexually intimate with others without having intercourse, has aided their failing matrimony.
The Matersons hope their pearls of wisdom help others achieve similarity-arousing results.
“Olivia and I are married, we have built a life together, and we love each other so much. It’s different from being sexually attracted to someone,” said Materson.
“[Swinging has] definitely brought us closer together.”
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