My fiancé proposed but I hate the ring — can I give it back?

My fiancé proposed but I hate the ring — can I give it back?

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists. From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband’s behavior is making me question how much longer this marriage can last

Dear Abby: My husband’s behavior is making me question how much longer this marriage can last

DEAR ABBY: My husband is very temperamental. When something goes wrong with his meal or service at a restaurant, or when he’s driving and gets upset with another driver, he angrily vents to me nonstop, repeating the same things over and over. This happens only when we’re alone, not when friends or family members are … Read more

Dear Abby: My wife and I haven’t been intimate for eight years… I’m thinking about cheating

Dear Abby: My wife and I haven’t been intimate for eight years… I’m thinking about cheating

DEAR ABBY: I have been happily married for 28 years but have not been intimate with my wife for the last eight of them. It all came to a halt when we prioritized raising our (four) children. We had been intimate on a regular basis for 20 years until it slowly faded and then stopped. … Read more

Dear Excuse My Advice: My best friend’s boyfriend is coming onto me — do I confront him, or say nothing to save my friendship?

Dear Excuse My Advice: My best friend’s boyfriend is coming onto me — do I confront him, or say nothing to save my friendship?

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists. From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

Dear Abby: My wife is having an affair with a convicted murderer and wants to divorce me

Dear Abby: My wife is having an affair with a convicted murderer and wants to divorce me

DEAR ABBY: My wife is having an affair with an old flame from when she was in high school. He was just released from prison after serving time for murder. I have forgiven her, but I told her to stop the contact. She said she’d rather divorce me than do that; I would have to … Read more

Dating expert reveals the secret to becoming a real-life 90-day fiancée — by skipping the ‘girlfriend stage’

Dating expert reveals the secret to becoming a real-life 90-day fiancée — by skipping the ‘girlfriend stage’

There’s a strict countdown for folks getting down on one knee.   Sami Wunder, an international dating coach, is working wonders for wannabe brides, giving gals the guidelines for scoring a marriage proposal in just 90 days flat.  Her secret? Skip the “girlfriend stage.” Sami Wunder says the key to getting an engagement ring in record … Read more

Well, hot dog! US states with the longest penises revealed — see how NY measures up

Well, hot dog! US states with the longest penises revealed — see how NY measures up

New York men have a new reason to squawk like the cock of the walk.  The “Big” Apple is, apparently, no misnomer as its home has been crowned as one of the top 5 states with the longest penises, according to a new report.  And there are hard facts to substantiate the claim.   Men in New York have … Read more

‘Hotwifing’ — the sexy new couples trend that’s ‘strengthening’ marriages across the country

‘Hotwifing’ — the sexy new couples trend that’s ‘strengthening’ marriages across the country

They’re taking their smokeshows on the road.  Men who are married to bombshells aren’t keeping them under wraps. In fact, a faction of these fortunate fellas are “hotwifing” their brides, permitting them to have sex with other men for the betterment of their holy matrimony — and, according to a new study, it’s working wonders.  … Read more

A DNA test revealed I have a half sibling through my dad — should I confront him? What if he doesn’t even know they exist?

A DNA test revealed I have a half sibling through my dad — should I confront him? What if he doesn’t even know they exist?

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists, From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

Gen Z men think women should ‘obey’ them, study says

Gen Z men think women should ‘obey’ them, study says

They’re youngsters with old outlooks.  Total submissiveness in romantic relationships is a must for a staggering number of young men, who view their wives and girlfriends as sexual subordinates, per startling new data.  “Thirty-one percent of Gen Z men agree that a wife should always obey her husband, and 33% say a husband should have the … Read more

I hate my brother’s girlfriend — do I tell him how I feel, or keep my mouth shut? 

I hate my brother’s girlfriend — do I tell him how I feel, or keep my mouth shut? 

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists, From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

Dear Abby: My employee wants to take bereavement leave for her dead dog

Dear Abby: My employee wants to take bereavement leave for her dead dog

DEAR ABBY: I supervise a group of six mid-level professionals. Usually, we manage fine, but a current conflict may push me over the edge. “Lauren” lives alone with dogs that seem to be her only family. One of them (age 11) had been sick. She kept asking for sick leave to take him to the … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband tries to control me when we’re with our friends

Dear Abby: My husband tries to control me when we’re with our friends

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for 40 years and share the same friendships — joint, his and mine. We have camped, hosted parties, and traveled with the same friends. My problem is that my husband says I’m not allowed to speak privately with the males in our group unless I first … Read more

Dear Abby: My beloved dog died — but my husband doesn’t understand my grief

Dear Abby: My beloved dog died — but my husband doesn’t understand my grief

DEAR ABBY: I lost my beloved puppy, “Truffle,” nine months ago. She was almost 15. I had to euthanize her because she was ill and suffering. I cannot begin to describe the depth of grief I’m experiencing. Her loss has been harder for me than any human loss. We had a connection that words cannot … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m walking on eggshells around my alcoholic husband—I’ve had enough

Dear Abby: I’m walking on eggshells around my alcoholic husband—I’ve had enough

DEAR ABBY: My retired husband of 15 years, “Seth,” is pushing me to the edge of divorce. He’s extremely negative, verbally abusive and estranged from many friends, which has harmed my relationships with friends and family. He drinks almost all day (I drink as well), calls me horrible names I won’t repeat and refuses to … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband disregarded my MS and put me in COVID danger

Dear Abby: My husband disregarded my MS and put me in COVID danger

DEAR ABBY: Two years ago, my husband was told that our adult child’s partner had tested positive for COVID two days before we were scheduled to visit them. My husband — a forever Good Time Charlie — decided not to inform me. Neither of us at that point had contracted COVID. We had taken every … Read more

Merry XXX-mas! Here comes the ‘holiday sex spike’ — and why it happens every Christmas

Merry XXX-mas! Here comes the ‘holiday sex spike’ — and why it happens every Christmas

We’re not just stuffing stockings.  While Santa’s riding around with Rudolph, lovers are riding each other — as a means of escape from Christmas drama and trauma, a new, ho-ho-hot report on Yuletide stress reveals.  “Holidays amplify everything that already exists beneath the surface,” said lead author Michael Salas, a licensed professional counselor, of the frisky … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband shared a bed with a female family friend half his age — then he did it again

Dear Abby: My husband shared a bed with a female family friend half his age — then he did it again

DEAR ABBY: My 58-year-old husband recently shared a bed in our camper with a 21-year-old family friend. The friend is female. This happened in my absence. He thinks of her as a “daughter,” and although I’m not concerned about anything inappropriate happening between them, I still feel it was inappropriate. I expressed my feelings to … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend is charging me $300 to watch our children

Dear Abby: My boyfriend is charging me 0 to watch our children

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have two children and work opposite evening shifts so that one of us is home with the kids at all times. Recently, my best friend from high school surprised me with concert tickets to our favorite band, but the concert is on a night I’m supposed to be with … Read more

Liking social media ‘thirst traps’ now grounds for divorce, Turkish court rules

Liking social media ‘thirst traps’ now grounds for divorce, Turkish court rules

Liking ‘thirst traps’ on social media could be grounds for divorce – in Türkiye, at least. In a landmark ruling, a Turkish court has determined that ‘liking’ other women’s social media posts can be used as evidence in divorce proceedings. The Court of Cassation, Türkiye’s highest court, found that a man from the major city … Read more