marriage advice

Exclusive | I purchased a $27K engagement ring and $20K wedding dress — to marry myself, after being cheated on by jerky men

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Exclusive | I purchased a K engagement ring and K wedding dress — to marry myself, after being cheated on by jerky men

Bonnie Locket’s had a bit of bum luck in love.  Her sizzling looks, vibrant spirit and perfectly perky bum notwithstanding, the British bombshell, an OnlyFans model of six years, has endured back-to-back infidelity in romantic relationships, leaving her divorced, depressed and nearly suicidal.  But rather than giving in to distress, she instead got into a $20,000 designer … Read more

My husband and I love threesomes — but I’m worried it’s ruining sex when it’s just the two of us

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My husband and I love threesomes — but I’m worried it’s ruining sex when it’s just the two of us

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists. From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

Dear Abby: I think my wife had an affair but the mystery man is now deceased

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Dear Abby: I think my wife had an affair but the mystery man is now deceased

DEAR ABBY: I suspect my wife had an affair some years ago. She was spending time with this man in a local bar on weekends for quite a while. I recently confronted her with the rumors going around, and she says she did nothing wrong. When she began talking about him with me one day … Read more

Exclusive | I’m a MAGA wife married to a lifelong Democrat — this is the secret to making our red-blue marriage work

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Exclusive | I’m a MAGA wife married to a lifelong Democrat — this is the secret to making our red-blue marriage work

For NYC matchmaker Bonnie Winston and her attorney husband of 24 years, Kenneth Sugarman, a typical night in the bedroom of their NoHo penthouse is reserved for one particularly spicy activity — flipping channels between FOX News and CNN. The bipartisan pair, Winston, 63, identifies as a “staunch Republican” and Sugarman, 71, a lifelong Democrat, … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband of 40 years verbally batters me and it’s affecting my health

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Dear Abby: My husband of 40 years verbally batters me and it’s affecting my health

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married 40 years and have two grown children. My husband is controlling. He wants things done his way and only his way and will go on and on about it if something is done any other way. He tells me to make up my mind about stuff, … Read more

Should I confess my bisexual desires to my husband?

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Should I confess my bisexual desires to my husband?

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists. From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

Dear Abby: Should I leave my husband for my new ‘best friend’?

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Dear Abby: Should I leave my husband for my new ‘best friend’?

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 11 years. Most of them were good. Two years ago, my husband started drinking again. It has caused a lot of problems, including a DUI, and my family won’t come around anymore. I’m feeling incredibly isolated. I recently met someone. He has become my best friend, and we … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband and his sister make decisions about our shared home without me

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Dear Abby: My husband and his sister make decisions about our shared home without me

DEAR ABBY: A few years ago, my husband and I bought a home together with his sister. We share the bills and chores and, for the most part, it works. We live in a nicer home than we could afford on our own. Frequently, though, my husband and his sister have discussions and make decisions … Read more

Exclusive | The one surprising rule divorce attorneys swear by on the third date

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Exclusive | The one surprising rule divorce attorneys swear by on the third date

Every person who’s married technically has a prenup — either written by the government in the form of a marriage license, or by the two people who chose each other out of the other 8 billion people in the world. And one expert believes a conversation about having a prenup could and should take place … Read more

Dear Abby: My adult son blames me for his estranged father who beat him as a child

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Dear Abby: My adult son blames me for his estranged father who beat him as a child

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been separated for 15 years. Our two grown children are on the spectrum. For the past two years, our daughter has lived with her father because she wouldn’t agree to be part of the team at my home and abide by the basic rules: Pick up after yourself, … Read more

He wants to bring his kids on our first date — how do I say no without wrecking everything?

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He wants to bring his kids on our first date — how do I say no without wrecking everything?

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists. From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

‘Wheel Of Fortune’ fan conducts ‘insane’ study to find out how many divorces occur after male contestants refer to wives on air

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‘Wheel Of Fortune’ fan conducts ‘insane’ study to find out how many divorces occur after male contestants refer to wives on air

How unfortunate. In the game of everlasting love, it’s typically best to err on the side of caution by showering your spouse with abject praise, both privately and publicly.  But the thoughtless men who don’t describe their brides as “beautiful” or “wonderful” — especially while on national television — often end up with marriages that … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband is cleaning the house — and it’s driving me crazy

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Dear Abby: My husband is cleaning the house — and it’s driving me crazy

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for 59 years. As he has gotten older, he has less to do to keep himself busy, and he no longer drives due to Alzheimer’s. He is now doing things inside the house without asking my opinion, including moving things around. Abby, as the woman of … Read more

Are women or men more likely to be golddiggers? New study reveals sinister answer

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Are women or men more likely to be golddiggers? New study reveals sinister answer

If she’s made of money, he’s sticking like honey — can ya dig it?  Cash often acts as the ultimate adhesive that binds a well-to-do tycoon to a money-hungry grifter. Those opportunistic, parasitic “gold diggers,” whom Kanye West and Jamie Foxx melodically scolded in their 2005 chart-topper about women who strategically rope rich men into romantic relationships for their … Read more

Dear Abby: My recently widowed ‘friend’ kissed my boyfriend in our home

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Dear Abby: My recently widowed ‘friend’ kissed my boyfriend in our home

DEAR ABBY: We were friends with a couple we met about five years ago. We went out together a few times and mostly saw them at our neighborhood bar. They live about 30 miles away. Well, the husband passed away about a year ago, so we offered the wife a bedroom whenever she comes this … Read more

My fiancé proposed but I hate the ring — can I give it back?

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My fiancé proposed but I hate the ring — can I give it back?

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists. From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband’s behavior is making me question how much longer this marriage can last

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Dear Abby: My husband’s behavior is making me question how much longer this marriage can last

DEAR ABBY: My husband is very temperamental. When something goes wrong with his meal or service at a restaurant, or when he’s driving and gets upset with another driver, he angrily vents to me nonstop, repeating the same things over and over. This happens only when we’re alone, not when friends or family members are … Read more

Dear Abby: My wife and I haven’t been intimate for eight years… I’m thinking about cheating

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Dear Abby: My wife and I haven’t been intimate for eight years… I’m thinking about cheating

DEAR ABBY: I have been happily married for 28 years but have not been intimate with my wife for the last eight of them. It all came to a halt when we prioritized raising our (four) children. We had been intimate on a regular basis for 20 years until it slowly faded and then stopped. … Read more

Dear Excuse My Advice: My best friend’s boyfriend is coming onto me — do I confront him, or say nothing to save my friendship?

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Dear Excuse My Advice: My best friend’s boyfriend is coming onto me — do I confront him, or say nothing to save my friendship?

Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists. From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the … Read more

Dear Abby: My wife is having an affair with a convicted murderer and wants to divorce me

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Dear Abby: My wife is having an affair with a convicted murderer and wants to divorce me

DEAR ABBY: My wife is having an affair with an old flame from when she was in high school. He was just released from prison after serving time for murder. I have forgiven her, but I told her to stop the contact. She said she’d rather divorce me than do that; I would have to … Read more