Dear Abby: My boyfriend’s family and mine are going to meet — I’m scared

Dear Abby: My boyfriend’s family and mine are going to meet — I’m scared

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of two years and I just bought our first house. It is truly magical — everything we’ve ever wanted. We plan to live together for another two years before getting engaged or married.  My parents and his parents have met only once. We’ll be having our housewarming party soon and I … Read more

Dear Abby: I don’t want to get stuck raising my nephew

Dear Abby: I don’t want to get stuck raising my nephew

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my husband for 10 years. Last year, his brother’s baby mama died, and we are stuck raising his brother’s 11-year-old son. I told my husband I don’t want to do this, but he refuses to listen. My youngest child is 28 years old. I think he is choosing this … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m in a secret relationship — I’m scared to tell my family

Dear Abby: I’m in a secret relationship — I’m scared to tell my family

DEAR ABBY: My niece’s mother-in-law of 32 years, “Helen,” died seven months ago. I have been quietly seeing her widowed husband, “Wayne,” for about three months now. We knew each other only socially up until then. After Helen’s death, my niece, her husband and their children went on vacation because Helen’s illness had been a … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m dating outside my marriage but I don’t think I’m being ‘unfaithful’

Dear Abby: I’m dating outside my marriage but I don’t think I’m being ‘unfaithful’

DEAR ABBY: I have been dating outside my marriage. My husband doesn’t know. It’s nothing serious — just dinner, drinks and dancing. All the men have been single. I would never go out with a married man. All of them have respected my boundaries. I don’t want to be unfaithful to my husband; I’m just … Read more

Dear Abby: My friend won’t accept her bisexual daughter

Dear Abby: My friend won’t accept her bisexual daughter

DEAR ABBY: A dear friend, “Lorraine,” contacted me because her daughter “Gabby” came out to her as bisexual and Lorraine knew I had experience with “this type of thing.” My daughter is bisexual.  Lorraine was repulsed by her daughter’s revelation and upset that Gabby expected her to be supportive and wear pride stickers, etc. My … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend won’t stop texting his exes

Dear Abby: My boyfriend won’t stop texting his exes

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been together six years. We are both divorced. We plan on being married in six months. He’s a perfect partner except for one thing. Every holiday, he jumps out of bed in the morning and takes his phone with him into the bathroom. There he texts his ex-wife … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m 14 and had an abortion, I’m terrified my family will find out

Dear Abby: I’m 14 and had an abortion, I’m terrified my family will find out

DEAR ABBY: My friend’s house was severely damaged in a hurricane and she lost a lot of the contents. Mind you, she was one of the lucky ones. Others in her community lost everything. One of her friends started a GoFundMe account to help with repair costs, and it is now up to thousands of … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m having an affair with a woman I met at the gym

Dear Abby: I’m having an affair with a woman I met at the gym

DEAR ABBY: I am a healthy, single, 76-year-old man. I spend lots of time at a local gym. I met a woman there two years ago, and we went out for coffee. She’s a few years younger than I am. She told me she was married, but it was a “complex” marriage. What started as … Read more

Dear Abby: My daughter-in-law is raising her 1-year-old baby vegetarian

Dear Abby: My daughter-in-law is raising her 1-year-old baby vegetarian

DEAR ABBY: My daughter-in-law just became a vegetarian and she seems to think pasta, cheese and fruit are all that is needed. She and my son have a 1-year-old and insist she be a vegetarian too. I’m worried because I feel like the protein is missing. There’s no effort to calculate protein levels, and now … Read more

Dear Abby: I caught my wife sexting another man

Dear Abby: I caught my wife sexting another man

DEAR ABBY: I found out today that my wife was sexting with a man in another state. His girlfriend sent me a message, which included a series of screenshots. I had confronted my wife regarding this prior to receiving the messages, but she swore she had sent only one topless photo and nothing else. After … Read more

Dear Abby: My 10-year-old still sleeps in bed with her mom

Dear Abby: My 10-year-old still sleeps in bed with her mom

DEAR ABBY: My 10-year-old daughter is a beautiful girl inside and out. She’s caring, loving and sweet to everyone. My only concern is that she still sleeps in the bed with her mom. While I don’t object to this and am willing to sacrifice and sleep elsewhere, should I be concerned about her psychological development? … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m caught in the middle of a family dispute

Dear Abby: I’m caught in the middle of a family dispute

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have a son, daughter-in-law and grandson. We moved from another city to be closer to them and be part of their lives. The problem is, my husband dislikes our daughter-in-law’s parents. He refuses to spend holidays or attend other activities where both sets of parents will be.  I don’t … Read more

Dear Abby: I feel like a third wheel to my boyfriend and his female best friend

Dear Abby: I feel like a third wheel to my boyfriend and his female best friend

DEAR ABBY: I recently left my boyfriend. He said he loved me, but I felt like a third wheel in our relationship. He had a female friend he was constantly borrowing money from, even though we both work. He also gave her relationship advice. They would bicker back and forth like 2-year-olds, and when we … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend’s father is making me miserable

Dear Abby: My boyfriend’s father is making me miserable

DEAR ABBY: I live with my longtime boyfriend, “George,” and his 88-year-old father, “Frank.” Frank is not your average 88-year-old. He does almost everything anyone in their 60s would do. However, he’s used to us having dinner for him at the same time every night because he’s very regimented about everything.  Frank gets everything taken … Read more

Dear Abby: My coworker keeps hitting on my husband right in front of me

Dear Abby: My coworker keeps hitting on my husband right in front of me

DEAR ABBY: I work with my husband in retail merchandising. A woman on our team is a few years younger than I am and very touchy-feely with my husband. She whispers in his ear and stands very close to him. My husband says that may be just the way she is. I told him he … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend is using me for sex and money

Dear Abby: My boyfriend is using me for sex and money

DEAR ABBY: I am in love with my best friend, “Mitch.” He’s a father of three great girls. He works hard but can’t handle his finances. His brother has to do it for him or nothing would get paid and his daughters wouldn’t get what they need. Mitch has ADHD. He can’t settle down.  We … Read more