Dear Abby: My son won’t let my see my grandchild

Dear Abby: My son won’t let my see my grandchild

DEAR ABBY: I met “Bobbie” when we were in college in the early 1970s. We fell in love, got married and stayed together for seven years. Things changed; our divorce was amicable. We went on to successful professional lives and happy second marriages. We stayed in touch over the years, mostly through holiday cards.  A … Read more

Dear Abby: My dead son’s wife has grown distant — and had a grandchild I didn’t know about

Dear Abby: My dead son’s wife has grown distant — and had a grandchild I didn’t know about

DEAR ABBY: My son died of cancer at 33. It was heartbreaking. My daughter-in-law, “Belinda,” had grown distant before his death, and although they had a son through artificial insemination, I have almost never seen him. I helped with the weeding in my son’s yard, but any time I came, Belinda always had the baby … Read more

Dear Abby: My grandchild has a lazy eye, but I’m afraid of triggering my daughter

Dear Abby: My grandchild has a lazy eye, but I’m afraid of triggering my daughter

DEAR ABBY: I’m blessed at 38 to have my first and likely only grandbaby. She’s PERFECT. My daughter, “Robin,” is stressed. She’s left alone with the baby all day, every day, while her partner works. Robin sleeps only when he’s home. I understand her frustration. I raised her and her brother, 12 months apart, on … Read more

My mom won’t babysit her grandchild unless I pay her $20 an hour plus overtime

My mom won’t babysit her grandchild unless I pay her  an hour plus overtime

As new parents, Nina and her husband are struggling for money. Her daughter is just a few months old, but she’s already looking at daycare, and worrying the fees will eat up much of what she earns. They’ve got over $7,000 in credit card debt, and Nina said paying daycare fees could drive them further into debt. … Read more