Dear Abby: My boyfriend is friends with 500 women on TikTok, but none of them are me

Dear Abby: My boyfriend is friends with 500 women on TikTok, but none of them are me

DEAR ABBY: I recently started dating a guy I have known for 30 years. He has moved in and asked me to marry him. Our relationship is perfect except for anything having to do with social media. He has an account on TikTok using a sexually suggestive name.  He’s following 500 women and has just … Read more

Cam Newton gave R-rated advice hours before ESPN firing: ‘Stop being a p—!’

Cam Newton gave R-rated advice hours before ESPN firing: ‘Stop being a p—!’

Former NFL quarterback Cam Newton was laid off by ESPN on Tuesday. This was part of a recent round of layoffs by the sports media company that also included Ryan Clark, Stephania Bell, and NFL Network newsbreaker Tom Pelissero. Newton was a common debate partner for Stephen A. Smith on “First Take” over the last … Read more

Dear Abby: My nephew ghosted our family — now he wants a wedding gift

Dear Abby: My nephew ghosted our family — now he wants a wedding gift

DEAR ABBY: Our nephew “Conrad” is engaged to be married soon. For several reasons, we are unable to attend the wedding. Under normal circumstances, I wouldn’t hesitate to send a generous gift as I have for our other nieces and nephews. However, Conrad is not normal. He doesn’t speak to me, my husband or our … Read more

Dear Abby: An hour-plus car trip with my husband is driving me away

Dear Abby: An hour-plus car trip with my husband is driving me away

DEAR ABBY: I’m 56 years old and have been married for 12 years. I don’t want to drive an hour and a half to spend time with my husband’s grandbabies. I have done that on many occasions and choose not to do it anymore. I’m not into babies — or children, for that matter. He … Read more

Dear Abby: My mother secretly buried my dad’s ashes and left me out of his final goodbye

Dear Abby: My mother secretly buried my dad’s ashes and left me out of his final goodbye

DEAR ABBY: After many years living near and helping my parents, I moved to another state to retire. My dad died three months after I moved. I begged my mother to let me fly back and help her with his arrangements, but she insisted I stay put.  Some weeks later, and two days after we … Read more

Dear Abby: I don’t want to sound like a spoiled brat, but I want my friends to celebrate me

Dear Abby: I don’t want to sound like a spoiled brat, but I want my friends to celebrate me

DEAR ABBY: I have two best friends going back to third grade (we’re in our 30s now) and one older sister. I’m the last in my friend group to get married. My fiancé and I are eloping this summer. We already own a house and need nothing, so I told my mother and sister that … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband’s parents always choose his twin — will they ignore our children, too?

Dear Abby: My husband’s parents always choose his twin — will they ignore our children, too?

DEAR ABBY: My husband has a twin brother and a younger brother. After I met his family, it became clear that his parents openly favor his twin, “Kaden.” Based on childhood stories my husband and other family members told me, his parents have spent most of their time, energy and money on Kaden. Previously, it … Read more

Dear Abby: My wife’s weight transformation has given her a wandering eye

Dear Abby: My wife’s weight transformation has given her a wandering eye

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been with my wife for 23 years. We have three kids and are in our early 40s. My wife has always struggled with her weight, but two years ago she started a plan and has been successful. Her weight loss has prompted me to notice her more, and I’ve noticed, as I’ve … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband has cheated throughout our 41-year marriage — does he even love me?

Dear Abby: My husband has cheated throughout our 41-year marriage — does he even love me?

DEAR ABBY: How can I tell if my husband loves me? We have been married 41 years, and during our entire marriage he’s been cheating on me with other women. He takes good care of me and is always there for me and our family. We hardly have sex. I try to give him a … Read more

Dear Abby: My FIL always dismisses my daughter’s health issues and I can’t bite my tongue anymore

Dear Abby: My FIL always dismisses my daughter’s health issues and I can’t bite my tongue anymore

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have four children, two of whom have congenital health issues we’ve been managing. One child is leading a “normal” life and is a spunky little kid. Our other child may be more impacted down the road, and we continue to seek answers. If people ask how either one of … Read more

Dear Abby: My fiancé brought home a puppy I never agreed to — now he wants to give it away

Dear Abby: My fiancé brought home a puppy I never agreed to — now he wants to give it away

DEAR ABBY: My fiance and I often talked about maybe getting a dog. He really wanted one, but I never fully committed because I knew it would be additional work and responsibility I don’t have time for. I work full time, do part-time work as well and manage the household tasks, shopping, cleaning, etc. When … Read more

Dear Abby: I married an older man at 20-years-old — now I wonder if I missed out on life

Dear Abby: I married an older man at 20-years-old — now I wonder if I missed out on life

DEAR ABBY: I married when I was 20 and my husband was 32. I grew up with a conservative view of marriage, so in a sense, I believed marrying early would grant me the most freedom as a woman. We have been married for five years and have a child.  Over the years, many people … Read more

Dear Abby: I don’t want to burden my 100-year-old mom with my serious diagnosis

Dear Abby: I don’t want to burden my 100-year-old mom with my serious diagnosis

DEAR ABBY: I have cancer. I have been expecting to be diagnosed with it since I was a teen. It is my family’s disease. My mother is 100 and still has her faculties, but she is frail. I have shared the diagnosis with my children, and I assume they told my grandchildren. My husband and … Read more

Dear Abby: My 82-year-old dad wants to drive 2,000 miles alone — am I watching a disaster unfold?

Dear Abby: My 82-year-old dad wants to drive 2,000 miles alone — am I watching a disaster unfold?

DEAR ABBY: At 82, my father continues to live alone and unassisted. He’s generally in good healt, but is starting to recognize that he won’t be forever. One thing he really wants to do while he still can (or thinks he can) is take a road trip — by himself — to visit his sister … Read more

Dear Abby: They didn’t have sex, but these emails sure feel like cheating to me

Dear Abby: They didn’t have sex, but these emails sure feel like cheating to me

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my wife for three years. She asked me to fix her old computer. As I was doing that, I saw emails from her ex, “Doug,” dated a few months before our wedding. They started with the usual greetings, then proceeded to steamy back-and-forth emails. They set up a … Read more

Dear Abby: I love my husband — but I can’t stomach his cooking

Dear Abby: I love my husband — but I can’t stomach his cooking

DEAR ABBY: I never want to eat my husband’s cooking again. He refuses to follow recipes because he says they are “too hard.” He doesn’t use seasonings — or he uses the wrong ones. An example: He recently put cinnamon and cloves on zucchini and agreed with me that it tasted terrible. In addition to … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m dating a european and a NYC stand-up guy at the same time, and I don’t know who to choose

Dear Abby: I’m dating a european and a NYC stand-up guy at the same time, and I don’t know who to choose

DEAR ABBY: After a tumultuous breakup, I reconnected with two men through friends. I’ve known and liked them both for years. One lives in Europe; the other lives here in New York. Both are wonderful, respectful and caring, and I feel beyond lucky. Both say they are in love with me and want to pursue … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband blames everyone but himself for his problems

Dear Abby: My husband blames everyone but himself for his problems

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my husband for 10 years. Ever since I have known him, he has had issues with depression and anxiety. I have tried to support him through these diagnoses.  He has attempted to go to therapy several times, but he never sticks with it. Once the therapist gets to … Read more