Dear Abby: I dated a guy for 8 months then he ghosted me

Dear Abby: I dated a guy for 8 months then he ghosted me

DEAR ABBY: I dated a guy long-distance for eight months. Whenever he was in my state for work, I’d go see him. Two months ago, he suddenly ghosted me! Two days prior to that, everything was fine. We texted and had a wonderful phone conversation. I’m at a loss. At first I was sad about … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband died and my dog has four months to live

Dear Abby: My husband died and my dog has four months to live

DEAR ABBY: We were a male couple in our 70s, together for 21 years, before my husband, “Charles,” died of COPD three weeks ago. For more than four years, I watched his health and quality of life decline until he finally had had enough and chose hospice. In less than 24 hours, he was gone.  … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband transitioned to female

Dear Abby: My husband transitioned to female

DEAR ABBY: My wedding ring from my first marriage was perfect. My ex asked my dad for my late mother’s ring to propose to me. He then took Mom’s ring to the jeweler and had the stone put in a modern, beautiful setting that I loved. We are divorced now because my husband transitioned to … Read more

Dear Abby: I work 2 jobs and still don’t earn enough — I can’t catch a break

Dear Abby: I work 2 jobs and still don’t earn enough — I can’t catch a break

DEAR ABBY: I am 20 years old and dating a Marine. I work at a hospital, and I also have a part-time job. I recently rented an apartment near where my boyfriend is staying, and I’m busting my butt to be independent. My boyfriend struggles because he’s got a lot going on as well and … Read more

Dear Abby: My mother-in-law says I am not ‘allowed’ to speak to her or her family

Dear Abby: My mother-in-law says I am not ‘allowed’ to speak to her or her family

DEAR ABBY: I’m a gay man. My husband and I have been together almost nine years, married less than one. Seven years ago, my mother-in-law decided I was no longer “allowed” to speak to her or her family. When my husband asked her why, she was unable to give him a clear answer but insists … Read more

Dear Abby: I’ve reconnected with the one who got away

Dear Abby: I’ve reconnected with the one who got away

DEAR ABBY: After being divorced for 18 years, I have reconnected with my high school sweetheart. She got in touch with me, and we started talking and seeing each other. She says she loves me, and to be honest, I love her, too. The problem is, she’s married. She has grown kids and is raising … Read more

Dear Abby: My sister is a chronic liar, it makes me cringe

Dear Abby: My sister is a chronic liar, it makes me cringe

DEAR ABBY: I’m at a loss about how to deal with my sister, “Julie.” We had an incredibly hard childhood. We lost our mother when she was only 48. My issue with Julie is her constant and blatant storytelling. She has two young children and is recently divorced. While I feel terrible about her situation … Read more

Dear Abby: My needy, demanding mother is ruining my life

Dear Abby: My needy, demanding mother is ruining my life

DEAR ABBY: I am a daughter who has spent 40 years helping out my parents. My father passed away seven years ago, and I miss him every day. My mother, whom I love very much, has become very needy, demanding and vocal in running all of our lives since Dad’s death. I’m at my wit’s … Read more

Dear Abby: A friend really screwed me over

Dear Abby: A friend really screwed me over

DEAR ABBY: I have a longtime friend, “Eve,” whose husband just died at 55. She is, of course, devastated. To combat her grief and loneliness, she’s going out every day or night with dozens of girlfriends. This is good because she’s doing all kinds of new sports and activities and filling her time with interesting … Read more

Dear Abby: I met my soulmate but there’s one problem — I’m married

Dear Abby: I met my soulmate but there’s one problem — I’m married

DEAR ABBY: I am married, but my wife and I are unhappy and have been for years. We grew apart after 17 years. We tried counseling multiple times; it only reinforces the decision to divorce. I have had two affairs. One lasted six months; the other on and off for the past nine months.  The … Read more

Dear Abby: I think my husband is having an affair with a coworker

Dear Abby: I think my husband is having an affair with a coworker

DEAR ABBY: Last night I went to a party where my husband introduced me to all of his co-workers except for one young female who kept hanging out beside him. She’s about 25 years younger than he is, and he’s her boss.  I thought it was odd that he didn’t introduce me. I finally introduced … Read more

Dear Abby: My mother-in-law told me a terrible secret she hasn’t told her own children

Dear Abby: My mother-in-law told me a terrible secret she hasn’t told her own children

DEAR ABBY: About 20 years ago, my mother-in-law confided something shocking to me. Some background: My husband has two sisters. One is a year older and looks just like him. They both resemble their dad. The younger one looks nothing like the other two or their dad.  My MIL told me she and her husband … Read more

My long-term girlfriend ghosted me — then she died

My long-term girlfriend ghosted me — then she died

DEAR ABBY: My first long-term girlfriend ghosted me. She died soon afterward, and I’m left with a gaping lack of closure. I’m 19. We had dated for four years and we were best friends. We didn’t live together, but planned to in the coming months. I intended to marry her.  One day out of the … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend gave me an ultimatatum

Dear Abby: My boyfriend gave me an ultimatatum

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of three years wants me to move in with him. He’s a great guy. He’s loving and affectionate, kind and caring. We want the same things for our kids and have quite a few things in common. We enjoy playing sports, and we’re both foodies. He checks a lot of my … Read more

Dear Abby: My ‘influencer’ daughter lives at home and doesn’t pay bills

Dear Abby: My ‘influencer’ daughter lives at home and doesn’t pay bills

DEAR ABBY: My 28-year-old daughter moved back home when COVID hit. She works as an influencer and also has a part-time job as a content creator. She doesn’t pay bills. My husband doesn’t want her to pay rent, etc. I feel it’s important for her to do so. She does pay for her groceries and … Read more