Dear Abby: I think my brother-in-law has Alzheimer’s, what do I do?

Dear Abby: I think my brother-in-law has Alzheimer’s, what do I do?

DEAR ABBY: My wife passed away six months ago after a long struggle with Alzheimer’s. I was her primary caregiver. Since she passed, her brother has been showing the same symptoms of paranoia she started with. Contact with him brings back sad memories, but I don’t know how to talk to him about it without … Read more

Dear Abby: I want to leave my wife for another woman but I don’t want to hurt my son

Dear Abby: I want to leave my wife for another woman but I don’t want to hurt my son

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married for a little more than 12 years. My wife and I have one child. Unfortunately, like a lot of relationships, we’ve been stuck in a rough patch for a while now. I learned that she was having an affair a few years ago, which rocked me to the core. I … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m engaged but still in love with an old flame

Dear Abby: I’m engaged but still in love with an old flame

DEAR ABBY: I recently got engaged to a man I’ve been seeing long-distance for about a year. Then, out of the blue, an old military friend/crush called me and told me he has been thinking a lot about me and is working on himself. He apologized for the times he ghosted me because he couldn’t … Read more

Dear Abby: My daughter cheated on her husband — my grandson is crushed

Dear Abby: My daughter cheated on her husband — my grandson is crushed

DEAR ABBY: My daughter, “Maddie,” 34, just left what I thought was a great marriage. After only five years, she cheated on her husband, “Glenn.” Their 6-year-old son is crushed. I know there are two sides to every story, but our entire family loves Glenn. He’s a hard worker, but quiet and kind of a … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m friends with benefits with a much younger man

Dear Abby: I’m friends with benefits with a much younger man

DEAR ABBY: I lost my husband of 20 years a little over two years ago. Last year, I moved to another state to be close to family. I rented an apartment, and my best friend moved with me. Shortly after, I met a much younger man. He was immediately interested in me. He’s sweet, kind … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend put a knife to my throat

Dear Abby: My boyfriend put a knife to my throat

DEAR ABBY: I have been in a relationship for five years. It started out wonderful, but now I’m having second thoughts. He keeps putting my kids down and telling me I’m a bad mother. It’s so bad he has even put a knife to my throat. And, yes, he hits me.  I am not an … Read more

Dear Abby: I left my husband 2 months after our wedding

Dear Abby: I left my husband 2 months after our wedding

DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband and I separated two months after our wedding. Our divorce was final five months ago. After I left him, I started talking to a younger guy I had a lot in common with. However, he has a gambling problem and ended up stealing money from my cash app.  He eventually paid … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend’s family and mine are going to meet — I’m scared

Dear Abby: My boyfriend’s family and mine are going to meet — I’m scared

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of two years and I just bought our first house. It is truly magical — everything we’ve ever wanted. We plan to live together for another two years before getting engaged or married.  My parents and his parents have met only once. We’ll be having our housewarming party soon and I … Read more

Dear Abby: I don’t want to get stuck raising my nephew

Dear Abby: I don’t want to get stuck raising my nephew

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my husband for 10 years. Last year, his brother’s baby mama died, and we are stuck raising his brother’s 11-year-old son. I told my husband I don’t want to do this, but he refuses to listen. My youngest child is 28 years old. I think he is choosing this … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m in a secret relationship — I’m scared to tell my family

Dear Abby: I’m in a secret relationship — I’m scared to tell my family

DEAR ABBY: My niece’s mother-in-law of 32 years, “Helen,” died seven months ago. I have been quietly seeing her widowed husband, “Wayne,” for about three months now. We knew each other only socially up until then. After Helen’s death, my niece, her husband and their children went on vacation because Helen’s illness had been a … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m dating outside my marriage but I don’t think I’m being ‘unfaithful’

Dear Abby: I’m dating outside my marriage but I don’t think I’m being ‘unfaithful’

DEAR ABBY: I have been dating outside my marriage. My husband doesn’t know. It’s nothing serious — just dinner, drinks and dancing. All the men have been single. I would never go out with a married man. All of them have respected my boundaries. I don’t want to be unfaithful to my husband; I’m just … Read more

Dear Abby: My friend won’t accept her bisexual daughter

Dear Abby: My friend won’t accept her bisexual daughter

DEAR ABBY: A dear friend, “Lorraine,” contacted me because her daughter “Gabby” came out to her as bisexual and Lorraine knew I had experience with “this type of thing.” My daughter is bisexual.  Lorraine was repulsed by her daughter’s revelation and upset that Gabby expected her to be supportive and wear pride stickers, etc. My … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend won’t stop texting his exes

Dear Abby: My boyfriend won’t stop texting his exes

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been together six years. We are both divorced. We plan on being married in six months. He’s a perfect partner except for one thing. Every holiday, he jumps out of bed in the morning and takes his phone with him into the bathroom. There he texts his ex-wife … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m 14 and had an abortion, I’m terrified my family will find out

Dear Abby: I’m 14 and had an abortion, I’m terrified my family will find out

DEAR ABBY: My friend’s house was severely damaged in a hurricane and she lost a lot of the contents. Mind you, she was one of the lucky ones. Others in her community lost everything. One of her friends started a GoFundMe account to help with repair costs, and it is now up to thousands of … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m having an affair with a woman I met at the gym

Dear Abby: I’m having an affair with a woman I met at the gym

DEAR ABBY: I am a healthy, single, 76-year-old man. I spend lots of time at a local gym. I met a woman there two years ago, and we went out for coffee. She’s a few years younger than I am. She told me she was married, but it was a “complex” marriage. What started as … Read more

Dear Abby: My daughter-in-law is raising her 1-year-old baby vegetarian

Dear Abby: My daughter-in-law is raising her 1-year-old baby vegetarian

DEAR ABBY: My daughter-in-law just became a vegetarian and she seems to think pasta, cheese and fruit are all that is needed. She and my son have a 1-year-old and insist she be a vegetarian too. I’m worried because I feel like the protein is missing. There’s no effort to calculate protein levels, and now … Read more