Dear Abby: My mother said my wedding was ‘not important’

Dear Abby: My mother said my wedding was ‘not important’

DEAR ABBY: I left a manipulative and abusive marriage after 18 years. My parents fully supported my decision. When I became engaged to the wonderful man who is now my husband, my mother and many other family members told me that second weddings were “not important” and I should have just gone to the courthouse.  … Read more

I can’t trust men since #MeToo and it’s ruining my love life

I can’t trust men since #MeToo and it’s ruining my love life

Welcome to Relationship Rehab, news.com.au’s weekly column solving all your romantic problems, no holds barred. This week, our resident sexologist Isiah McKimmie helps a woman who finds it hard to trust men and how it’s stopping her from finding love. QUESTION: I’m finding it increasingly hard to trust men. I think it’s everything that has been in the … Read more

Dear Abby: My 53-year-old daughter never left home, barely works

Dear Abby: My 53-year-old daughter never left home, barely works

DEAR ABBY: My husband passed away two years ago. I hope you can give me some advice on how to deal with my 53-year-old daughter who never left home. We generally get along well. She does freelance art, but doesn’t earn much. She contributes only $30 a month. Also, she has a driving phobia, so … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend is still on dating apps

Dear Abby: My boyfriend is still on dating apps

DEAR ABBY: I am a widowed woman who met a gentleman online two years ago. We met in person and get along really great. Everything seems perfect, but my girlfriends keep telling me they see his profile on numerous dating sites. When I asked him about it, he said he had closed the accounts. Well, … Read more

Dear Abby: I’m happy now that my abusive ex is dead

Dear Abby: I’m happy now that my abusive ex is dead

DEAR ABBY: I have been a widow for six months. My late husband was a physically and verbally abusive alcoholic. I spent numerous nights in the ER waiting to be seen and nursed many black eyes throughout the years. During all those years of abuse, which was witnessed by numerous friends and family, I remained … Read more

Dear Abby: My child’s father is a deadbeat dad

Dear Abby: My child’s father is a deadbeat dad

DEAR ABBY: I have a child who is 11. I have been a single parent all these years. The father has not reached out on any occasion. Through the years, all we’ve heard is cricket noise. Because of that, we built our own lives. Recently, the father has decided he wants his rights known as … Read more

Dear Abby: Just because I’m a man marrying a woman, that doesn’t make me ‘straight’

Dear Abby: Just because I’m a man marrying a woman, that doesn’t make me ‘straight’

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 30-something bisexual man who is in a relationship with a bisexual woman the same age. We both lived different lives and dated a variety of people before we met, but now I am pretty certain she is The One. The issue arises when it comes to how others, particularly my parents … Read more

Dear Abby: I don’t cry when my relatives die, only when my pets do

Dear Abby: I don’t cry when my relatives die, only when my pets do

DEAR ABBY: I don’t cry when friends or close relatives pass away, which embarrasses me and makes me feel guilty. I do feel empathy, though. I cry only when a pet has died. What’s wrong with me? — DRY-EYED  DEAR DRY-EYED: No one can predict when they will be moved to tears, so please quit … Read more

Dear Abby: I think I’m a musical genius, my wife thinks I suck

Dear Abby: I think I’m a musical genius, my wife thinks I suck

DEAR ABBY: I’m a middle-aged married man and the father of two. Although I work as a banker, I’m also an aspiring pianist. I have practiced two to three hours a day for many years. My music is unique — unlike anything ever heard. My wife of 18 years does not appreciate my music. She … Read more

Dear Abby: My wife’s brothers won’t talk to her because of something I said

Dear Abby: My wife’s brothers won’t talk to her because of something I said

DEAR ABBY: Recently, my wife told me her brothers have been mad at her for more than a decade and don’t talk to her because of something I said at a family get-together 12 years ago. I asked what they were mad about and what the discussion was about that upset them, but they didn’t … Read more

Dear Abby: My sister is dating my ex-husband

Dear Abby: My sister is dating my ex-husband

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been divorced for 18 years. My sister is also divorced. Recently, she has been going out with my ex. He picks her up at our parents’ house, where she has been living. When I’m there, I have to see this. My parents don’t say anything to her about it, and I don’t … Read more

Jennifer Lawrence regrets not taking Adele’s career advice over box office bomb

Jennifer Lawrence regrets not taking Adele’s career advice over box office bomb

She may have an Oscar under her belt, but it’s not all been smooth sailing for Jennifer Lawrence. The actress, 32, bagged roles in some of the biggest films in the last decade, including leading roles in “The Hunger Games” franchise, “Silver Linings Playbook,” and “Don’t Look Up.” But the actress admitted to making some … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband has cerebral palsy, everyone thinks he’s drunk

Dear Abby: My husband has cerebral palsy, everyone thinks he’s drunk

DEAR ABBY: My husband has cerebral palsy. He can talk, but his speech is slightly slurred. He can walk, but he’s unsteady on his feet. We love to go out and have a few drinks, but the issue is that people think he is intoxicated. We have been thrown out of places. We were almost … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband had a heart attack and his stepmom is making things worse

Dear Abby: My husband had a heart attack and his stepmom is making things worse

DEAR ABBY: I’m having a problem with my husband’s judgmental and narcissistic stepmom. She wasn’t nice to him or his siblings while they were growing up. My hubby recently had a heart attack. After I called to tell his dad and emailed his siblings, she got very upset with me because I didn’t give her … Read more

Dear Abby: My wife has 12 cats and our house is disgusting

Dear Abby: My wife has 12 cats and our house is disgusting

DEAR ABBY: My wife of 15 years is a cat lover. When we were first married, she begged me to allow the cat she had at her mother’s house to live with us. I reluctantly agreed on the condition that the litter box was tended to and the cat would not be allowed on the … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband keeps messaging his friend’s widow

Dear Abby: My husband keeps messaging his friend’s widow

DEAR ABBY: This woman keeps texting my husband. Her husband died last year, and she has been staying in contact with my husband. I know he initiates the messaging most of the time. He also deletes her messages. Our husbands grew up together but kept in touch only twice a year. They would call each … Read more

Dear Abby: My husband wants our daughter to quit her favorite sport because her coach is trans

Dear Abby: My husband wants our daughter to quit her favorite sport because her coach is trans

DEAR ABBY: My 9-year-old daughter, “Kennedy,” plays volleyball. One of the assistant coaches is a transgender woman. I had known about the coach before Kennedy started playing. Although I’m OK with a transgender person coaching my child (I feel their gender identity is absolutely none of my business), my husband is not. He wants our … Read more

Dear Abby: Politics have torn me and my father apart

Dear Abby: Politics have torn me and my father apart

DEAR ABBY: For my 50th birthday 10 years ago, my father, with whom I have had a tumultuous relationship, gave me cherished rings as gifts. One was my grandmother’s and the other was my grandfather’s, both of whom are deceased. This was at a time when we were in a good place, and it meant … Read more