Dear Abby: I want to kick out my dad and his soon-to-be wife

Dear Abby: I want to kick out my dad and his soon-to-be wife

DEAR ABBY: My father has depended on my mother (and me) for money for as long as I can remember. It wasn’t because he was unable to work, but because he was lazy and had a drinking and gambling problem. My parents eventually divorced, and my father moved in with his sister (my aunt). She … Read more

Dear Abby: Should a wife be expected to handle all of the responsibilities of hosting guests?

Dear Abby: Should a wife be expected to handle all of the responsibilities of hosting guests?

DEAR ABBY: I was shocked at your response to “Hosted Out” (March 28), who was frustrated at having to host, feed and entertain her husband’s hunting buddy and his wife several times a year. I agreed with your suggestion that she stay elsewhere while these friends stay at her home so her husband will (hopefully) … Read more

Dear Abby: My mother thinks we’re best friends — I feel like I’m the more mature one

Dear Abby: My mother thinks we’re best friends — I feel like I’m the more mature one

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been having an issue lately involving my mother. It feels like she isn’t really my “mother” but someone who thinks we’re best friends. It’s like she never really grew out of her high school days — and I’m almost 30.  I’ll have days at work where she texts to tell me about … Read more

Dear Abby: My pregnant girlfriend thinks I’m cheating on her

Dear Abby: My pregnant girlfriend thinks I’m cheating on her

DEAR ABBY: My girlfriend, “Jessica,” thinks I’ve cheated on her because I didn’t come home right away after being given the day off. My grandparents were away on vacation. When they go away, they want me to check on the house and bring in the mail and newspaper.  On this particular day, I decided to … Read more

Dear Abby: My elderly parents no longer want their kids or grandkids around — what do I do?

Dear Abby: My elderly parents no longer want their kids or grandkids around — what do I do?

DEAR ABBY: My parents are in their 70s. They live in a retirement community. As they have gotten older, they have become more private. They no longer want their children or grandkids around. Recently, I received a call telling me that they would not be answering phone calls anymore. I have stopped by their house, … Read more

Dear Abby: Should I confront my guests about my misplaced panties?

Dear Abby: Should I confront my guests about my misplaced panties?

DEAR ABBY: We invited a couple for a short visit to our remote country cabin. Afterward, I discovered a pair of pink panties lying on the road in front of our mailbox. When I picked them up with a stick to carry to the trash, I realized they were a pair of clean pink panties … Read more

Dear Abby: My fiancee keeps on being touchy with other men — it bothers me

Dear Abby: My fiancee keeps on being touchy with other men — it bothers me

DEAR ABBY: My fiancee has a number of male friends she has known for years. One of them stops off at her work, brings food and gifts, and may go out with her after hours. Another called her one evening and invited her out for drinks to celebrate his promotion.  At a recent party, another … Read more

Dear Abby: I blocked my overbearing sister and she went to my in-laws

Dear Abby: I blocked my overbearing sister and she went to my in-laws

DEAR ABBY: My sister has bullied and controlled me most of my life. She has said many very unkind things, and I have reached a place in my life where I need peace and distance from her. Because of this, I have blocked her from texting or calling me.  The problem I’m having is that … Read more

Dear Abby: My daughter’s biological mother told her I’m not her ‘real mom’

Dear Abby: My daughter’s biological mother told her I’m not her ‘real mom’

DEAR ABBY: We adopted our daughter, “Opal,” at the age of 2. She is 6 now. Opal lived with us off and on as a newborn, but by age 1, she lived permanently with us. We live in a small community, so everyone knows everyone. Opal lived with her biological mom prior to adoption.  We … Read more

Dear Abby: Should I skip my daughter’s graduation if my wife can’t come?

Dear Abby: Should I skip my daughter’s graduation if my wife can’t come?

DEAR ABBY: My daughter is graduating from college with a bachelor’s degree — a proud moment. I am divorced from her mother. Both her mother and I are invited to attend the ceremony, but she has not invited my current wife, whom she doesn’t like. She has stated that she has only a limited number … Read more

Dear Abby: Should I lend my estranged sister money?

Dear Abby: Should I lend my estranged sister money?

DEAR ABBY: My sister and I were born seven years apart and didn’t have a relationship. This continued into our adult life and actually became worse. She was almost bordering on cruel. Our parents didn’t know. She married an abusive man who isolated her once our parents died. When my father passed away, they went … Read more

Dear Abby: Do I tell my husband my ex is in our motorcycle club?

Dear Abby: Do I tell my husband my ex is in our motorcycle club?

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are retired and have recently joined a Harley Davidson motorcycle club. We both love to ride and are looking forward to many events in the coming months. At the first meeting we attended, an ex-lover of mine was seated at the same table near my husband. They seemed to … Read more

Dear Abby: My daughter threw me out of the house over how I am raising her niece

Dear Abby: My daughter threw me out of the house over how I am raising her niece

DEAR ABBY: I am raising a granddaughter. We went to visit her aunt and cousin and had a nice day until my granddaughter told her aunt she should let her 5-year-old pick out her own clothes. My daughter became enraged and told me I had to teach my granddaughter to respect adults. I told my … Read more

Dear Abby: I lost the love of my life — I’m absolutely devastated

Dear Abby: I lost the love of my life — I’m absolutely devastated

DEAR ABBY: I was married to a wonderful woman for 27 happy years until she passed last year. We did everything together. Now I feel lonely and depressed. We had a sweet furry guy named Maxx who was our whole world. I lost Maxx a few months ago, and I am devastated.  I’m a very … Read more

Dear Abby: Should I tell my alcoholic daughter that I took her out of my will?

Dear Abby: Should I tell my alcoholic daughter that I took her out of my will?

DEAR ABBY: I’m a single retired grandfather in the South. My daughter, 50, has hitched her wagon to an alcoholic. She’s circling the drain and going down with him.  My grandsons are adults and scattered around the country. They are lazy and none of them has a full-time job. We used to keep them during … Read more

Dear Abby: My sister’s addiction is killing our parents

Dear Abby: My sister’s addiction is killing our parents

DEAR ABBY: My elderly father died recently. Although he had a variety of ailments, including heart disease, his death was unexpected. He spent many years of his life trying to save my drug-addicted, criminal sister from herself. Despite occasional periods of sobriety, she has invariably returned to her evil ways.  Three days before Dad passed, … Read more

Dear Abby: My daughter doesn’t want anything to do with me

Dear Abby: My daughter doesn’t want anything to do with me

DEAR ABBY: My older daughter, “Brianna,” age 42, does not want anything to do with me or her brother and sister-in-law. She keeps me from my granddaughter, who is 17. I have been divorced since the ’90s and remarried for 25 years. My first husband was a cheater. I tried very hard to save my … Read more

Dear Abby: My boyfriend’s pal is taking complete advantage of us

Dear Abby: My boyfriend’s pal is taking complete advantage of us

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I rented an apartment six weeks ago. A friend of his needed a place to stay due to some marital problems, so we decided she could stay with us. At the beginning, she offered us $500, and we agreed to that. Abby, she hasn’t paid us a dime. She has … Read more