DEAR ABBY: I worked for 11 years in the accounting department of a busy law firm. During my tenure, my three much younger colleagues married and started families. Due to the inevitable trials of raising kids, planned, unplanned and often simultaneous absences became commonplace, which left me to run the department alone. During my last … Read more
DEAR ABBY: A co-worker and I have developed a mutual friendship with a co-worker who lives in a different town. They’re a beautiful human with the hugest heart. They escaped an abusive relationship and are currently a single parent to their special needs child. They’re also severely isolated due to the abuse they suffered. We’ve … Read more
Tash Oakes is “sick and tired” of the stigma associated with not having many friends in 2024. It is no secret Generation Z is a lonely generation. While they are incredibly connected through social media, they still crave human connection. A recent survey by youth organization Year13, which interviewed Australians between the ages of 18 and … Read more
DEAR ABBY: My sister has bullied and controlled me most of my life. She has said many very unkind things, and I have reached a place in my life where I need peace and distance from her. Because of this, I have blocked her from texting or calling me. The problem I’m having is that … Read more
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DEAR ABBY: My older daughter, “Brianna,” age 42, does not want anything to do with me or her brother and sister-in-law. She keeps me from my granddaughter, who is 17. I have been divorced since the ’90s and remarried for 25 years. My first husband was a cheater. I tried very hard to save my … Read more
When Isabella Epstein moved to the West Village in 2021, no “Sex and the City”-style gaggle of gal pals awaited her arrival. At 23, the Connecticut girl — new to NYC after snagging a prime investment banker gig — found herself unhappily alone, even approaching random folks on the street in search of companionship. This past winter, … Read more
Millennials and Gen Zers might be the most connected generations, but they struggle to make friends. They’ve found themselves in a bizarre reality where they’ve become increasingly lonely despite their constant connection through swiping, posting, tweeting, texting, snap-chatting, direct messaging and sharing their locations on social media. Research from the dating app Bumble in 2023 … Read more
Best friends — but not necessarily forever. Gen Z workers made waves two years ago by quiet quitting their jobs — a clever term for doing the bare minimum to get by, also known as acting your wage. Now, they’re doing the same with less-than-perfect friendships and relationships — the ones where they’re no longer really feeling … Read more
Parenting is a tough gig, and while we might have differing views and opinions on how to do the ‘hardest job in the world’ is it ever okay to openly judge a friend’s kids or their parenting style? One woman found herself in tricky territory recently when after a catch up with a good mate and her 4-year-old … Read more
DEAR ABBY: I have a 4-year-old daughter. She spends time at her grandma’s house and does arts and crafts projects there. When my MIL drops her off, she brings the project to our house. We enjoy seeing it for a few days, and my daughter plays with it for a few days. Then it gets added … Read more
Sharing good news with a best friend should be a happy occasion and something you can both celebrate. But for one upset woman and soon-to-be grandmother, her joyful announcement caused friction with her bestie. Taking to a popular Mumsnet forum, the grandma-in-waiting explained her predicament. “My closest friend who I see at least once a week and am … Read more
Oprah Winfrey was hospitalized for “some kind of stomach thing,” her best friend, Gayle King, revealed on Tuesday. Winfrey, 70, was supposed to drop by King’s “CBS Mornings,” but skipped out on the appearance due to being under the weather. “She had some kind of stomach thing — stomach flu — stuff was coming out … Read more
DEAR ABBY: A woman I’ve known and been friends with for 40 years has gradually changed. She has developed some health problems, and whenever she calls me, all she talks about are her ailments and treatments. When we manage to discuss other things, she turns the subject to her political views, which are different from … Read more
DEAR ABBY: I am a male scientist at a large university. Four years ago, I was surprised to receive an email from someone with whom I’d been friends many years ago, when he was a postdoctoral fellow in our department. We were good friends back then, but we lost contact when he moved east and … Read more
Looking for a lift? The answer might be YouTube. Watching videos on the ubiquitous social media site may make people happier than small talk with casual acquaintances or coworkers, according to new research. The research, which actually encompassed three studies that surveyed 1,080 people in the UK and US found that 52% of respondents felt … Read more
Decades after Philip K. Dick asked if androids dreamed of electric sheep, we have an answer. This android — one of two nameless leads in the Oscar-nominated charmer “Robot Dreams” — envisions a small, lonely dog in his third-floor walk-up, microwaving a depressing dinner for one. Set in 1980s Manhattan, Pablo Berger’s all-ages, wordless wonder … Read more
Andy Cohen cheered on John Mayer when the musician sent a letter to The Hollywood Reporter about their line of questioning to Cohen about their friendship. “I will tell you someone who I am not with. Who — between he or I we are constantly having to clarify our relationship and that is John Mayer,” … Read more
Mates before dates — but only if your mate doesn’t fancy your date. Men are more likely to be friends if they don’t share the same taste in women, new research has shown, highlighting how competition for the fairer sex can cause friction in male relationships. The study, published in the Journal of Social and … Read more
Looks like he’s waiting on the world to change. Just one day after Andy Cohen’s viral interview about his friendship with John Mayer, the musician has weighed in on the discourse himself. The “Slow Dancing in a Burning Room” hitmaker, 46, has long been friends with the Bravo honcho, who is openly gay, but their … Read more