As my pal Jonny reminds me, “March is not a month, it’s a command.” Let’s get to it folks, but first, a look at what we’ll be stepping in, through, and over in the days to come. The energy builds this month, from mellow to crescendo, as we start out skinny-dipping in the moon waters … Read more
Let’s talk turn-ons folks, those things that rev our engines, harden our nips, flip our switches flush our cheeks and stir our loins In what I hope is evidence of consent being paramount to pleasure, Americans ranked being told “I like that,” in bed as a top-tier turn-on. Our nation also loves neck kisses, ear … Read more
Forget pharmaceuticals, frequent fornication could be key to staving off disease. A Chinese medicine expert says regular sex is essential to good health — and is sharing just how often you should be getting hot and heavy based on your age. Nina Cheng took to TikTok last week to break down the naughty numbers in … Read more
Lost control of your sex drive? Here’s how to get it back. Sexual function — defined by factors like desire, arousal and pleasure — in men and especially women decreased significantly during the COVID-19 pandemic, research and experts say. “I’ve been hearing about this since the first couple of months of the pandemic and it’s definitely … Read more
Did your toxic ex leave you with way more than debt, trust issues, and a proverbial box full of darkness? Acclaimed nondenominational exorcist, author, and energy specialist Rachel (R.H.) Stavis reveals that entities can function like sexually transmitted infections — and you can indeed get a demon from getting it on. Stavis tells The Post, … Read more
Like so many things, our attraction and disenchantment may be star-born. Just as astrology offers us a deeper understanding of the self and others and can indicate our personal preferences for foreplay, ice cream flavors, sex soundtracks, sandwiches, superpowers, polyamory, and pets, so too can the stars shed their light on our turnoffs. When it … Read more
An Australian woman has shocked two radio hosts after sharing her threesome gone wrong. Phoning into Triple J’s The Hookup program hosts Pip Rasmussen and Dee Salmin were left speechless after the caller revealed she “went home with a couple and they broke up while I was there, naked, between them.” “Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,” Rasmussen … Read more
Men, you’ve got one very specific theory about us women oh so wrong. You see, I stumbled into a conundrum this week that made me realize the statement, ‘Men are from Mars women are from Venus’ has never been truer than in this current age of dating. The way men and women think, date, seduce, … Read more
Exorcise your demons, my babies. From resolutions to blood oaths channeled to make us better, January is high time to take steps that serve our greater good and future selves. For Rachel Stavis — a nondenominational exorcist, apex Pisces and author of “Sister of Darkness: The Chronicles of a Modern Exorcist” — furthering our personal … Read more
The best thing about writing a dating and sex column (aside from the numerous free pleasure devices I get sent from companies) is that every day I get to wake up and explore my favorite topic in the world. Whether it’s going on dates, reading a juicy sex survey, or getting my friends to share … Read more
Call them the seven deadly sins. An intimacy coach says the moments after sex are just as important as the act itself — and she’s sharing the seven things a person should never do post-coitus. Holly Robinson, who runs online “Surrender With Holly” sex and intimacy classes, dished her list in an interview with The … Read more
How on earth did the human population ever survive without Google? Picture this. You’re watching a new movie on Netflix and you swear you recognize one of the actors. Can you imagine not being able to simply Google who they are and then go on a 20-minute deep dive to learn about every facet of … Read more
Did you ever try seven minutes in heaven during high school? A summer holiday pastime most of us cringe at the memory of. But, something was thrilling about the privacy (cupboard), new location (friend’s parent’s basement) and new sensations (surprising tongue techniques) associated with those early experiences, even if they were more clammy than steamy. … Read more
The end of the year is near — and we are galloping into December on the half-human, half-horse, all-optimist hooves of Sagittarius season. This month begins with Mercury moving into Capricorn on Dec. 1. Here, the planet of communication and exchange takes on a direct, brass tax approach. This is a Mercury that knows how … Read more
When I first started this column as a single girl trying to navigate the ever-changing dating scene, did I think I would one day be offering smug sex advice to loved-up parents? No, I did not. But I was gifted a piece of advice this week that was so shocking I felt it was my … Read more
A few months ago a friend came over to my place for a wine and we were unpacking her most recent date. Halfway through her story I stopped her and said: “You know that’s illegal, right?” She looked shocked and said she didn’t. I then suggested that perhaps we should go to the police. You … Read more
Today is the day we celebrate the cliché. Each year on Nov. 3, the tried, the mostly true and the oft-repeated get their due on National Cliché Day. The word cliché, French in origin, was used by printers to describe the cast plates or block prints they used to replicate text and images. The word … Read more
It’s a question as old as time: how long should you wait before you sleep together? As a woman, this question is particularly tricky. Not because we’re supposed to be ‘ladies’. That view died as soon as the Sex and the City girls knocked blokes over the head with the news that, yes, women enjoy getting jiggy … Read more
QUESTION: I’ve been with my partner for a few months and he’s expressed that he really likes giving women oral sex. I have never been with anyone who’s into it and I’m finding his insistence that he wants to do it and will enjoy it quite unbelievable. Is there such a thing as men finding giving … Read more
With cuffing season on the rise and costume sales at their peak, we are taking a look at the sexy role-play scenario that best suits each zodiac sign. Nervous about broaching the subject with your partner? Fear not. A 2018 survey commissioned by sex toy brand EdenFantasys revealed the kink positive tendencies of Americans — … Read more