Want sex to last longer? Listen to this music to reduce performance anxiety: new study

Want sex to last longer? Listen to this music to reduce performance anxiety: new study

Talk about a musical score.  Sex is the best with Nicki Minaj, The Weeknd or Deftones, according to a June 2024 report on music’s influence during risqué rolls in the hay.  “Whether setting the mood, increasing satisfaction, or even influencing the length of intimate moments, the right playlist can make all the difference,” explained study authors … Read more

Do you have ‘relationship OCD’? Behind the signs and how to treat it

Do you have ‘relationship OCD’? Behind the signs and how to treat it

In a world where you can filter future flings based on a set of characteristics, is it any wonder that we get profoundly preoccupied with finding the perfect partner?  Already seeing someone? You’re not exempt. Those in relationships are also guilty of hyperfixating on their current partner, to determine whether the one they’ve got is … Read more

Going with the ‘flow’ could lead to longer life and better heart health

Going with the ‘flow’ could lead to longer life and better heart health

Get into your groove…like your life depends on it. “Flow state,” is defined as optimal fluidity between body and mind where time slows, senses are heightened, and we experience the deep satisfaction of total absorption and effortless momentum. Hungarian-American psychologist Mihály Csíkszentmihályi was the first to coin the term. He began researching the phenomenon in … Read more

‘Busy bragging’ is the latest toxic workplace trait — it makes your colleagues think you’re dumb, too

‘Busy bragging’ is the latest toxic workplace trait — it makes your colleagues think you’re dumb, too

They’re stressed to impress. Boasting about how inundated you are at work might appear to convey professionalism and dedication to the job, but it can actually have the opposite effect, experts say. Employees who “stress brag,” or “busy brag,” are more likely to be perceived as less likable — and less competent — by their colleagues, per … Read more

Dear Abby: My great-aunt is convincing the family to boycott my wedding because of past drama

Dear Abby: My great-aunt is convincing the family to boycott my wedding because of past drama

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of three years recently proposed. The issue is he’s the great-nephew of the man who jilted my great-aunt at the altar in the 1970s. My aunt dated his great-uncle for financial reasons, which she has admitted. She tried to ensure he would stay with her by “baby trapping” him and telling … Read more

Teen girls’ stunning smartphone usage revealed in new study: ‘Serious’

Teen girls’ stunning smartphone usage revealed in new study: ‘Serious’

This news is nothing to cell-ebrate. Some teen girls are clocking more than five hours a day on their smartphones — most are likely addicted to social media, a fixation that has been tied to poorer health and wellbeing, new research from Finland finds. “The implications of nearly six hours of daily smartphone use and … Read more

Survey reveals simple step most Americans should take to improve their mental health

Survey reveals simple step most Americans should take to improve their mental health

The simplest tool to calm anxiety is just a step away, according to a recent study. A survey of 2,000 Americans with outdoor spaces at home revealed that 94% of respondents agreed that the simple act of stepping outside helps them relax when stressed or anxious. On average, respondents reported it takes about nine minutes … Read more

Sitting still is hard, but experts say the benefits of meditation are worth the struggle

Sitting still is hard, but experts say the benefits of meditation are worth the struggle

The first time Marcelle Hutchins sat down to meditate, she put on a guided session, relaxed her shoulders and tried to close her eyes. She lasted two minutes. “I had a deadline, and I thought, ’I don’t know if I can sit still this long,’” said Hutchins, who was working as a radio journalist. At … Read more

Americans are craving outdoor time more than ever before — here’s why

Americans are craving outdoor time more than ever before — here’s why

We want out. Americans need an average of 67 minutes outside every day in order to feel their best, new research reveals. A poll of 2,000 adults found that a record number of us (57%) value the concept of maximizing their daily time in the great outdoors. Americans need an average of 67 minutes outside … Read more

Never send this text to someone with anxiety

Never send this text to someone with anxiety

Tone can be difficult to discern and easy to misconstrue in a text message and according to mental health professionals, three little words can trigger an onslaught of anxiety. The top-tier text offender to send someone with anxiety? “Can we talk?” Licensed marriage and family therapist Alex Oliver-Gans tells HuffPost, “The ambiguity and lack of … Read more

How parental burnout can harm children — and 8 ways to build a better bond

How parental burnout can harm children — and 8 ways to build a better bond

Maybe it’s time to move chess club off the schedule. The more structured extracurricular activities a child has, the greater the chance they will exhibit negative behaviors such as having trouble concentrating, getting easily distracted, and fighting with other children, a new study finds. Parents should lighten the activity load by participating in “free playtime” … Read more

This is a free and easy way to beat stress, experts say

This is a free and easy way to beat stress, experts say

The secret to beating stress could be as simple as going outside, according to an expert.  “The outdoors have so many amazing benefits for us,” general pediatrician Dr. Vanessa Slots told CBS Minnesota station WCCO.  “There are a lot of studies that show being in nature — even if it’s just sitting under a tree … Read more

5 tips to try if you’re super stressed out at work

5 tips to try if you’re super stressed out at work

If your 9-to-5 is giving 24/7 stress, it’s time to make a change. While some workplace stress is normal — even inevitable — other times, it can feel overwhelming, says Dr. Jessica Stern, CEO of Three Lemons and psychologist at NYU Langone Health. If that sounds familiar, here are five tips to help you cope … Read more

 Influencer shares ‘ultimate wellness hack’ you should do every night

 Influencer shares ‘ultimate wellness hack’ you should do every night

A TikTok influencer has shared her top tip for living her best life and you can try the six-second, totally free wellness hack tonight! As you ready yourself for slumber, set sail for sanity by setting your alarm and switching your phone to airplane mode…and keep it that way. Wellness expert Rebecca Leigh explains, “When … Read more

Gen Z has ‘email anxiety’ at work, struggling to cope with 1,000s of unread messages: ‘Hardest part of my job’

Gen Z has ‘email anxiety’ at work, struggling to cope with 1,000s of unread messages: ‘Hardest part of my job’

It’s just not clicking for them.  For millennials and older, the “You Got Mail” notification rarely incited stress.  In fact, most folks over thirty can still remember feeling a flush of excitement upon receiving an email — be it from work, family, friends or even advertisers — during its early stages in the early aughts.  But to … Read more

Reservations anxiety the new norm at US national parks as beauty spots battle crowding

Reservations anxiety the new norm at US national parks as beauty spots battle crowding

Welcome to Yosemite — do you have a booking? Travelers to the legendary California beauty spot and other popular national parks from coast to coast will need to remember to snag a reservation before hitting the road this summer — or risk being denied entry upon arrival. The gate-keeping system, which for a number of … Read more

Kate Middleton and Prince William feel ‘intense anxiety’ over idea of taking throne: expert

Kate Middleton and Prince William feel ‘intense anxiety’ over idea of taking throne: expert

Prince William and Kate Middleton are feeling “intense anxiety” over the idea of taking the reins from King Charles III, according to a royal expert. Since announcing his cancer diagnosis publicly in February, the 75-year-old monarch was forced to hit the brakes on much of his royal agenda and has undertaken less public-facing duties. The … Read more

Dear Abby: I want to cut off my controlling sister for hurting my mental health

Dear Abby: I want to cut off my controlling sister for hurting my mental health

DEAR ABBY: Five years ago, I was diagnosed with GAD (generalized anxiety disorder). It manifests itself with sudden outbursts of anger when I’m stressed, which is often. I have three sisters, two of whom are bossy and try to take over and control every little thing. I have always had a difficult relationship with one … Read more

I’m a sex therapist — here are 6 signs that you’re bad in bed

I’m a sex therapist — here are 6 signs that you’re bad in bed

Let’s talk about sex, baby — and why you’re bad at it. Sex and relationship psychotherapist Miranda Christophers, founder of The Therapy Yard UK-based counseling service, is sharing the six signs you suck in the sack — from a shortage of swagger to a run-of-the-mill routine. “People can’t be ‘good’ in bed — relaxed, engaged, … Read more

Boeing passengers turn to medication, prayer, therapy to deal with fears after litany of flight problems

Boeing passengers turn to medication, prayer, therapy to deal with fears after litany of flight problems

Some fliers are nervous to travel aboard Boeing aircraft following a stream of flight problems in the last three months say they try to book flights on other planes while others say they’ve turned to prayer or medications to get through their trips. The shift in response toward Boeing took off in January after a … Read more